What's Worse?

I always reread this kind of stuff like once a month when I get confused...and it always makes me feel teary-eyed.  Like maybe I was confused or wrong...and then there it all is, in black and white.  And I don't know which is worse...being totally wrong about the situation, or totally right...Symptoms of Emotional Abuse

"I'm Fat!"

I think at some point in our life we have all had the friend (or been that friend) that goes on about "I'm Fat!"...I was thinking about this a lot in the car this morning.  Women spend a lot of time thinking about how fat we are, and how to control, hide, defeat the fat.  At what point do we finally learn to come to terms with the fact that women are naturally fluffy?  It's part of our charm....I know we are taught as children that it doesn't matter what other people think, and we should learn to love our bodies, but the truth is that we rarely practice what we preach.  So, let's say that because we are human, and this is especially true with women, that it DOES matter what other people think.  Let's say our self worth is (at least partially) determined by the value other people's approval adds to our life and self.  Let me then pose a question for all of us "I'm Fat!" Girls out there...How many times do you really think a man has crawled into bed with us and thought "Damn, my chick is so soft, squishy, warm, and cuddly...I wish she was harder and bonier!"?  My best guess would be NEVER!  I have always said that what looks good in the light and what feels good in the dark are sometimes two very different things....So all you "Fat Chicks", throw on some eyeshadow, a tight dress, and some cute shoes....and STRUT YOUR SHIT! <3  (PS, That phrase, "I'm Fat!", makes everybody else feel awkward and it is a real downer.  Just because you are fat or have fat doesn't mean fat is who you are...Let's all stop adding fuel to the fire and try to give up that phrase this year)
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